Birthmothers never forget
I want all Birth children to know and understand that they have never been or ever will be forgotten. I placed my son for Adoption 26 years ago and there isn't a day that goes by that I do not think of him. Anthony is always on my mind on a daily Basic. I know in my heart that some day we will meet again. I can only hope and dream it's in my life time.
I realize that some Adoptees might feel that if their birth parents placed them for Adoption, they didn't want them; but that just isn't the case. I know every Birth mom has her own individual reasons why she placed her child for Adoption. Some feel they didn't have the funds to raise a child. Others they already raising children and struggling. Some are not with the Father and they feel they can't raise a baby alone.
I can tell you this, no matter what the reason is, your Birth mom placed you for Adoption, she thought of your needs and loves you very much unconditionally. She thought of your future. I hear a lot that Birth mom's say "I did not have the money to raise a baby" or "another baby" . I do know we all want to have a great secure job and making good money and a nice home with a great Husband with a few little ones running around but we all do not live in a perfect world. There are so many factors on why our placements took place. I can tell you, when I was 12 years old, I was playing with dolls and riding my Bike with my friends. We did not sit around and say "when I grow up I am going to be a Birth mom". That's the Truth. We sat around saying we couldn't wait till we grew up to have a family of our own and make grown up decisions so our parents couldn't tell us what to do anymore. Then we grew up and had all that and wished we were twelve again and wished our parents could fix everything. Funny how life can be.